Attraction of Relationship which is one of the main parts of a human life, which all human being needs:
First of all, To all my readers I will request you to read my article after keeping aside all your depression, All your Hardwork in your daily life.
When you will read my content just try to learn from this , make some changes into you if you think you may have some fault.
Take a deep breathe and lets start this session.
Am I scientist? Nope, I'm just a boy who's experienced quite a few relationships, talked with a lot of people in and out of relationships, and learned lessons from them all.
My research has spanned over 7 years and recently I've come to a conclusion -- actually it's more like a recipe -- I like to call HICCUPS, a cycle of life. It has seven main ingredients when mixed together, create a healthy, happy long-lasting relationship.
Here are the ingredients:
1. Honesty
Love is honest, brutally honest. A relationship built on the foundation of honesty has an indestructible framework of trust.
Honesty and trust breed respect. Respecting your partner is critical. Without respect, love can't last. Be honest, no matter what. If you are honest and the relationship ends, it is meant to end. If a relationship is meant, nothing you say (if you are speaking truthfully) will cause it to cease. Have faith in the truth.
2. Intellectual Compatibility
Two people must be friends in mind, not necessarily like-minded, but equal-minded. The smarty/bimbo combo has a shelf life, a short one.
If you are on the same intellectual wave length, you will always have something to talk and laugh about. In turn, you will never bore of each other -- which is vital if you plan to last after your nest empties and erectile dysfunction sets in.
The ability to give each other a mind-gasm is more explosive and longevous than a physical one -- it will keep you cumming for a lifetime.
3. Communication
"We never argue or fight." That's not something to brag about. It's a kind of necessity of a true honest Relationship
If a couple doesn't argue, it is a sign of distrust. One or both members of the relationship are avoiding confrontation, and dismissing their own thoughts and feelings to please their partner in order to escape the discomfort of discourse. These relationships will not last because there is an absence of trust and an overwhelming presence of fear.It may be that you both are not same in many ways ,May be Your mentalities are quite different but if you think to forget the one who has different mentality then my friend you are on the wrong direction..Make a healthy communication, Be a best friend of your partner.
Just Remind one thing,communication is the only one thing by which you can observe your partner like what he/she needs,what he/she wants,whar he/she thinks.
Examine your relationship and ask these questions:
Do each of us have the ability to listen and sift through the words, the tears or the yells to see the heart of what our partner is trying to communicate to us?
Are we willing to step outside of our desires to be right and validate each other's feelings?
For those who are afraid of confrontation, focus on the solution, because it's not about the argument, it's the resolution that matters. Healthy relationships allow space for discomfort, because they know their partner is equally as committed to finding a solution. What destroys a relationship is the need to win. What strengthens a relationship is the ability to listen. An argument will dissolve when the people having the argument feel heard.
4. Compromise
A relationship is only as happy as the least happiest person in it, and the relationship is happiest in the middle of the two people in it. Mature participants of a relationship know sometimes one person has to travel a little farther to the center than the other. They are willing to make the trek, because they trust that the other will do the same when it is their turn.
When compromise is necessary ask yourself, "What matters more to me, my need to get my way or my need for peace? What do I need to do to create harmony right now?"
When you think and act in favor of the well being of your relationship, you will always air in favor of compromise; even if that means you travel a little farther than your partner because you know, if your partner is miserable, you will be, too, and so will your relationship.
5. Understanding
You may know your partner now, but you weren't born into his or her family. You didn't experience his or her life firsthand. Everyone is formed and conditioned by their circumstance. We are taught how to communicate and function (whether directly or indirectly) by our parents.
You and your partner come to your relationship with different needs and ways of communicating. As his or her partner, it's imperative you are understanding and accepting of your differences. Instead of expecting them to communicate how you do, study them like a foreign language and learn their language with the same passion you show your favorite hobby. This will keep you from entering the gates of judgment and frustration, as you learn to "speak their language" and love them the way they need to be loved.
6. Patience
No one belongs to you. You can't control anyone either. Despite how hard you try to persuade or manipulate another to respond and react in the way you want, they won't and they don't. Everyone thinks, feels and acts in their own way, on their own time.
If you try to rush someone's process or push them to do something they don't want to do, they will feel pressured. When a person feels pressured, they feel unsafe, unloved and unable to give love. They will no longer be themselves, and when someone is not themselves, they are not honest. Without honesty, love dies, as will the relationship.
The most important thing you can do for the person you love is give them space. When a person has space, they feel free -- free to feel and think, do what they love and be who they are in their own way, on their own time and they will want to share themselves with you. Remember, love is not in a rush, it has all the time in the world.
Be the person as like the original.Don't change your partner like your way just because you want your partner to be, you want your partner not to be.
Just remember one thing, the original product has it's real value as compared to the artificial one.
7.Sex
I use the word "sex" to describe the seventh ingredient, but it's more than just intercourse. It's affection, touch, attention, warmth and kindness. The ingredient of sex is comprised of reciprocity (an equality of service to one another) and the desire to show your partner he or she is special and wanted by you. When a person feels wanted, they feel safe, loved and free (there's that freedom part again).
Sex and all its components disappear because the individuals in the relationship stop feeling special, wanted and acknowledged by the other. The feelings of love develop effortlessly, but if you want to keep love alive, you have to maintain it -- you must work at it. Relationships demand effort by both people, equally at the same time.
Daily effort applied to a relationship by its partners will lead to a lifetime of love. It can be a simple effort -- a gentle touch, a sweet kiss, an arm wrapped around her belly as she washes dishes, or sitting by his side as he reads a book or watches his favorite show. All of these actions are a reminder to your partner -- I see you, I acknowledge you, I choose you, I'm trying because I love you and I want to keep loving you.
I've been alive for 29 years, and I have concluded that love is undefinable. Although I do know one thing I am absolutely sure of, and that is love is a choice.
Loving another person is a moment-by-moment choice. "I choose to love this person with everything I have right now." If you are in a relationship, I hope you commit to loving your partner with an honest heart, a fully present mind, transparency in feeling and thought, a willingness to compromise (because you understand who they are and what they need to feel loved).
I hope you choose to be patient with their process and you always find the time to express your love with a hug and a kiss, as if this moment is the last time you will ever hold them in your arms. Oh, one last thing, never forget to say I love you -- we can never say it too much.
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Thank you
Regards Rahul Diyashi
Grt... keep it up😊🙏
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